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Não é um simples "terminar porque não deu certo" É por nunca ser verdadeiro, honesto, por usar as pessoas para preencher o seu irremediável vazio, APENAS. Enquanto são supridos, na busca de sempre mais e mais, sugam totalmente a vítima utilizando dessas formas cruéis de manipulação, triangulação, desvalorização, traições, mentiras, etc... afinal o que o outro sente, pensa, os sonhos, os planos, a dedicação e a confiança depositada não significam NADA. Então ele simplesmente arranja outro suprimento, e o ciclo recomeça... E ele diz "ah, não deu... mas eu tentei" Fingindo que a vítima teve culpa, que não foi manipulada, enganada, e que se ficou e insistiu foi porque quis... Fingindo não saber as coisas terríveis que fez para que não fosse mais possível continuar. Fingindo... fingindo... fingindo... O que mais fazem de melhor nessa vida vazia: fingir. Afinal, não tem como esperar algo verdadeiro ou amor de alguém que nunca aprendeu o que é isso, e não ama nem a si mesmo... #oamornaofazmal #relacionamento #relacionamentoabusivo #relacionamentotoxico #narcisista #narcisismo #psicopata #narcopata #sociopata #transtornodepersonalidadenarcisista #abusopsicologico #amor #violenciadomestica #narcisistaoculto #gaslighting #amorproprio #narcisistaperverso #contatozero #exabusivo #redflag #manipulação #hoovering

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1 hour ago

The narcissist LOVES this one. It goes way beyond just cheating (although that works too ). The narcissist will casually mention someone else in order for you to feel insecure and begin to ask questions. To which the narcissist goes “my god, you are so jealous!” Tables are flipped (not shockingly, as this is a classic narcissist move ). • My experience was that the narcissist would make crude sexual jokes about my friends. I repeatedly said they made me uncomfortable but he continued; I now realize that he loved that it made me uncomfortable because this provided him with a negative supply of fuel. It was just sly enough to be passable but just too much to make me disgusted. • The triangulation is covert and is often masked in jokes or small comments. The devil is in the details. Literally. 👿 #weaponizedempath #empath #narcissisticabuse #hoovering #narcissist #cruelintentions #sexualabuse #flyingmonkeys #domesticviolence #narcissisticabusesurvivor #verbalabuse #wordsalad #circularconversation #sociopath #psychopath #nocontact #toxicpeople #narcissists #narcissism #relationships #loveandocd #mentalhealth #narcissisticabuse #loveanddepression #cptsd #ptsd #traumabond #reactiveabuse #rocd

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1 hour ago

Em quais casos é aconselhável aplicar o contato zero? Aplicaremos o contato zero nas relações desgastantes. Ou seja, quando é necessário deixar para trás a relação afetiva com um narcisista ou uma amizade que demonstra esses mesmos traços destrutivos. Relações com familiares nas quais o dano é contínuo (e não há indícios de mudança, sensibilização ou melhora ) Da mesma forma, o contato zero também é recomendável quando deixamos para trás um ambiente de trabalho e colegas que violaram nossos direitos. #vitimasdonarcisismo #relacionamentoabusivo #hoovering #gaslighting #abusopsicologico #abusonarcisista #narcisistaperverso #relacionamentoxico #autoestima #transtornodepersonalidadenarcisista #lovebombing #contatozero #stalking #abstinenciabuso #manipulacao #manipulacaopsicologica #vitima #triangulacao #desvalorizacao #flyingmonkeys #terrorpsicologico #depressao #mudançaéumadecisão #relacionamentosabusivos #somosrenascidos #relacionamentostóxicos #codependenciaemocional #vemrenascer #maema #maeruim

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1 hour ago

Existe uma expressão da psicologia popular que denomina como "macaco voador" alguém que age ao comando do narcisista para infligir tormento adicional às suas vítimas. Suas ações podem consistir em: espionagem sobre a vítima, espalhar fofocas, ameaçar, levar e trazer informações, pintar o narcisista como a vítima e seu alvo como o agressor, entre outras coisas. De repente, do nada, você é contatado por alguém que nunca falou com você, buscando informações de sua vida ou trazendo informações sobre o perverso, ou passa a ser maltratado por alguém que antes lhe tratava bem, coisas do gênero. É o narcisista agindo sobre seus macacos voadores. Apesar disso, o narcisista não hesita em transformar seus "macacos voadores" em seus bodes expiatórios quando e se necessário. Para conseguirem destruir seus alvos, os narcisistas se utilizam de argumentos sujos, chantagens, mensagens provocativas, ameaças, mentiras, distorções da verdade, histórias fantasiosas, exposição maldosa de segredos e traumas que seus alvos confidenciaram ao longo da relação, dependência financeira e claro, da ajuda de sua "rede de apoio". A rede de apoio de um narcisista maligno é constituída por "macacos voadores" ou "possibilitadores", ou seja, puxa-sacos que eles compram com pequenos favores, bajulação ou através do medo (ex. se trabalham para o narcisista, temem perder o emprego ). Os ajudam também alguns familiares cegos que fingem não saber que seu parente é um doente. #vitimasdonarcisismo #relacionamentoabusivo #hoovering #gaslighting #abusopsicologico #abusonarcisista #narcisistaperverso #relacionamentoxico #autoestima #transtornodepersonalidadenarcisista #lovebombing #contatozero #stalking #abstinenciabuso #manipulacao #manipulacaopsicologica #vitima #triangulacao #desvalorizacao #flyingmonkeys #terrorpsicologico #depressao #mudançaéumadecisão #relacionamentosabusivos #somosrenascidos #relacionamentostóxicos #codependenciaemocional #vemrenascer #maema #maeruim

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2 hours ago

🥰 Survivor Story🥰 Providence cult is so toxic they don’t honour boundaries. Leaders feel entitled to command you around its crazy. This is also a form of abuse. Get OUT of this cult and stay out. #criminalsbelike #hoovering #flyingmonkeys #religiouscult #providiot #cultawareness #cultsurvivor #koreancults

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2 hours ago

Welcome Home • I am absolutely in love with my new @vaxcleanhome hoover! After months of having to deal with a rubbish hoover I finally have clean carpets!😍 Also, discovered it had turbo mode, nearly crapped myself 😂😂 • #home #homecleaning #homecleaninguk #hoover #cleaning #cleaningmotivation #cleaningproducts #mrshinch #mrshincharmy #mrshinchhome #mrshinchcleaning #myhome #myhomevibe #vax #hoovering

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3 hours ago

#Repost @oamornaofazmal ・・・ Então, deixe-os ir. Não se permita mais ser arrastada para um lugar que não lhe pertence. Muita coisa reluz mas não é ouro. E felicidade de rede social ou até mesmo em sociedade não quer dizer NADA sobre a realidade. Afinal de contas, quantas vezes você saiu com um sorriso estampado no rosto com vontade de não ir, ir embora, ou maquiagem para esconder as olheiras do choro antes de sair, ou das noites horríveis perdidas ? Esquece não . Tenta lembrar sem dor, mas não esquece que tu pode ser “diferente” porque simplesmente não nasceu para viver comendo lavagem . Às vezes pode até estar em um bom restaurante, mas continua sendo lavagem, porque está ao lado de porcos. Então... Não se permita ser adestrada e manipulada! Reposted from @ponto_e__virgula #oamornaofazmal #relacionamento #relacionamentoabusivo #relacionamentotoxico #narcisista #narcisismo #psicopata #narcopata #sociopata #transtornodepersonalidadenarcisista #abusopsicologico #amor #violenciadomestica #narcisistaoculto #gaslighting #amorproprio #narcisistaperverso #contatozero #exabusivo #redflag #manipulação #hoovering

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4 hours ago

‘Abuse’ is a word which isn’t in their dictionary, basically. Narcissists believe they are the victims not the perpetrators. They live according to a set of protocols (devised by them ) by which others are required to perform various functions according to the requirements of the narc. This is not abuse, from the p.o.v. of the narc. Rather, it’s an arrangement. The narc makes an investment (= the idealisation/lovebombing phase at the beginning ) in the partner/target, & in return for that, the partner/target is expected to perform the various functions to suit their needs. If the partner/target doesn’t want to perform those functions, the narc will find someone else who will. It’s as simple as that. When you look at it this way, & understand that the narc does not regard any of this as abuse, then you’ll begin to make sense of their (severely dysfunctional ) behaviour. They do not think like normal people, therefore they don’t behave like normal people. & it is pointless to expect them to do so. It’s not going to happen. Don’t waste any more of your time & life expecting anything normal from them. It will never happen. If there’s anyone reading this that is being abused, get some help ASAP. Get away from the abuser & don’t stop seeking help until you get it. You have a duty to put your safety & well-being (& that of your children if you have them ) first. Stop protecting your abuser by hiding the abuse. You don’t have to tell the whole world, but you need to start telling some people, seek out trustworthy supportive people who care & tell them what has been happening. They will watch out for you & protect you whilst you heal. If you haven’t got anyone like that in your life then go find them. (Hint: if they tell you to go back to the abuser then they don’t care about you, keep searching there are plenty of resources out there to help you stay safe. 💕

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5 hours ago

Marshy created an instant scatter feed when she knocked over her bowl. Great day to chuck biscuits on the floor! @nopupcleftbehind #messypuppy #biscuits #puppysnacks #scatterfeed #verybusy #hoovering #thecleanup #moptoaislefour #spill #petfoodspill #adoptdontshop #rescuedogsofinstagram #cleftpalatepup

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7 hours ago

I grew up listening to fairy tales of Prince Charming rescuing the damsel in distress so my belief was this is what life should be like. That I wasn’t complete unless I had a man looking after me!!! A man rescuing and caring for a woman. That my happiness was down to a man being there to protect and care for me.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ BUT when I went through my divorce, this totally threw me as I sat waiting for someone to come and rescue me!! Where was my knight in shining armour?! Then I realised I needed to rescue myself!!!! I needed to be my own Princess, my own knight, be my own warrior within!!! If you have a daughter or even a son as this applies to them too, teach them to rescue themself, to be resilient, to know they are awesome and good enough simply for who they are!!! Not because of how they look or their grades, just for being them.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Encourage them to embrace life and be the director if their own life and to know that they can do anything in life as the power is on their hands ❤️ Thankyou #rossrosenberg for sharing this amazing meme.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ #narcissist #narcissisticabusesurvivor #narcissisticabuse #narcissistic #narcissists #covertnarcissist #narcissistabuse #codependent #codependency #empath #empaths #empathproblems #psychologicalabuse #emotionalabuse #domesticabusesurvivor #rapidtransformationaltherapy #thriveafterabuse #cognitivedissonance #flyingmonkeys #hoovering #parenting #emdr #emdrtherapy #rtt #rapidtransformationaltherapy #brainspotting #narcissists #narcissisticabuserecovery #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder

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9 hours ago

Hoovering Jude-style 🦉

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11 hours ago

O brilho, a vitalidade, o sorriso, o amor próprio, a lucidez, a dignidade, a vontade de viver... Eles são vazios, e sabem disso. Por isso precisam de suprimento, sugando das vítimas... E isso não tem cura. Não tem tratamento. Não tem jeito... Liberte-se! Você merece uma vida plena. #oamornaofazmal #relacionamento #relacionamentoabusivo #relacionamentotoxico #narcisista #narcisismo #psicopata #narcopata #sociopata #transtornodepersonalidadenarcisista #abusopsicologico #amor #violenciadomestica #narcisistaoculto #gaslighting #amorproprio #narcisistaperverso #contatozero #exabusivo #redflag #manipulação #hoovering

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13 hours ago

Nós dois sabemos a verdade. E as demais pessoas envolvidas também. A diferença é que eu sou do tipo que faz, banca, assume, e paga se tiver que pagar. Não sou omissa, não sou uma farsa ambulante que tem medo de assumir ser quem é, para que a máscara de "gente de bem" não caia. Você pode seguir enganando o mundo inteiro como me enganou. Pode me chamar de louca. Pode dizer que eu insisti muito, mesmo sabendo que era um relacionamento falido, tóxico e com alguém sem caráter nenhum. Pode dizer que a culpa por vc ser o lixo que é (e historicamente sempre foi ) é minha. O que diz tanto faz, afinal seus valores são distorcidos... é o vergonhoso exemplo a ser dado a um filho que dizia querer... Diga o que quiser. A única coisa que você NUNCA poderá falar, é que menti em sequer uma vírgula... Afinal, você sabe. só é covarde, não assume, e nem se importa... Nem eu mais. A culpa que vc colocou em mim, nunca foi minha e eu me livrei. ESSE B.O. NAO É MAIS MEU e eu seguirei liberta desse vampiro emocional perverso. E a verdade sobre SUA HISTÓRIA, sobre sua essência e quem vc é, e não só sobre o que vc fez comigo, é o que sempre vai prevalecer. Reposted from @bakalwiara

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14 hours ago

#Repost @oamornaofazmal • • • • • • Quer saber quem é uma pessoa de verdade? Avalie as suas atitudes. Discurso bonito qualquer pessoa que seja um pouco inteligente é capaz de fazer. Falar tudo que você deseja ouvir, é uma especialidade dos narcisistas, sedutores e manipuladores. “Pois cada árvore é conhecida pelos seus próprios frutos. Não é possível colher-se figos de espinheiros, nem tampouco, uvas de ervas daninhas.” (Lucas 6;44 ). É pelos frutos que você conhece a semente que foi plantada. Você não vê a semente com os olhos, mas, a reconhece pelos frutos. É pelas atitudes que você conhece a essência e o coração de alguém. Não deixe a sua carência te fazer acreditar em tudo que você ouve, olhe para as atitudes e avalie a realidade que se apresenta diante de você. Sem ilusões ou fantasias infantis. Isso te protegerá de muita dor. Quanto mais consciente, melhor! Por @lifeiscool_academy sigam! #oamornaofazmal #relacionamento #relacionamentoabusivo #relacionamentotoxico #narcisista #narcisismo #psicopata #narcopata #sociopata #transtornodepersonalidadenarcisista #abusopsicologico #amor #violenciadomestica #narcisistaoculto #gaslighting #amorproprio #narcisistaperverso #contatozero #exabusivo #redflag #manipulação #hoovering

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16 hours ago

🚨 Entenda borboletas que nada disso é real, são apenas desculpas para ele entrar em contato com você (O famoso hoovering ). A lista de desculpas e enorme, mas essa "mudança" não dura em 15 dias. Na verdade o ciclo do abuso só piora a cada reconciliação e o único jeito de não cair nessa armadilha é se manter firme no contato zero pra literalmente fugir da tentação de ouvir essas desculpinhas esfarrapadas. 😌 🤔 E aí, qual dessas frases você deu ✔️ na sua lista? Me conta aqui nos comentários, quero saber! 👇🏻 ❤️ Segue nossa página e nos ajude a tocar em mais corações cansados. 👩🏻‍🎓 Jhandaya Moura- Terapeuta Certificada em Relacionamentos Abusivos e criadora da página @foqueiemmim

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16 hours ago

How many of us experienced this feeling? Like a shark was coming for us, Soon as I used to hear the sound of my ex’s motorbike turn up on the drive I would feel the fear ripple through me. I’d ruminate on the following prior to his arrival... What mood is narcshark going to be in today? What is he going to nitpick at the moment his foot enters the door? How drunk will I need to get to cope with him? How much is he going to gaslight me today? How many lies will he spew? Will he lay in bed all day watching the same programmes over & over again laughing without a care in the world whilst he watches me be his glorified slave driver? Will he rage over the fact I have my own thoughts & opinions & fear saying something he doesn’t want to hear? How many eggshells do I have to tread on today? Will I be sexually abused? How many outrageous scenarios of his am I going to have to listen to today? How many insane behaviours is he going to exhibit today? How much food, junk food & sugar is he going to consume at my expense. I guarantee he will belittle, demean & berate me & cause me to cry over his behaviours. & much more... I felt like this for years and if I could turn back time, I wouldn’t if I was in my ‘right mind’ back then would of stayed for aslong as I did. If you feel like a human shark is coming for you & you fear them all the time it’s time to get out & stay out, What we allow is what will continue. RUN & never ever look back. 🙏💕

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There are so many stories so fucked up it makes me sick to think how twisted he had my mind. When people ask about him they expect me to hate him, to be angry at all the things he did. But I’m not. Sure, I get angry at the fact that I let him get me to a point where I completely lost myself, I get angry at the fact that I got so messed up that I don’t think I could carry on, But I don’t get mad anymore... For him I solely feel disappointment. That is who he is. Narcissism is a sickness if you think about it. Just like drug addiction. Drug addicts can be amazing people, until they’re in active addiction. Then they become people with no morals or decency. Narcissists dont even KNOW they’re narcissist’s. There’s a reason they are this way & usually it’s because of childhood trauma or something that clearly FUCKED them up as a child. There’s still a person inside of there. Someone whose desperate & alone. & we have to come to terms with the fact that there’s nothing we can do about that. The trauma happened because he was a narcissist, yes. But the trauma wouldn’t have been able to happen if I didn’t stay. That’s on me. Sure I was codependent, sure he fucked my head up, But I should have left. I fucked up by staying as long as I did But I’ve come so far. I’m doing so much better. My mind is healing. It’s been n/c & that’s how it will remain, but the violation can still affect me on a regular basis. I’ve dealt with the trauma, I can talk about it & not go crazy. Always try to be kind to yourself whilst healing it is a process that comes in waves, I am no longer trauma bonded neither do I care for his existence, but I carry a lot of regret & anger & resentment for myself for being dumb enough to settle for the malevolent clown to begin with. The violation may never leave us, but we can go onto living a better fulfilling life with time something the narcissist is simply ’incapable‘ of ever doing.

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2 days ago

The narcissist needs to hurt you in order for them to feel alive... Narcissists are empty inside, there is a deep void inside of them that constantly drives them to seek fuel, They need this fuel to patch themselves up inside, or they will sink into a state of despair. This is something that is difficult to understand if you don’t similarly have a void inside of yourself, For you maybe getting some exercise, having a hot bath or watching a great film with a tub of ice cream will get you out of your doldrums, These things don’t work for Narcissists, Whatever is inside of them, Doesn't respond like yours, They need to feel the power & control of causing you to shed tears over their actions, this is called “Negative fuel” When the feeling of power & control of watching you cry surges through them, it temporarily dispels the void & they feel alive, Like how you might feel after a wonderful massage, Your tears are proof of the love you Had for the narcissist at the time, Nothing else can be proof, The point of narcissistic abuse is to render you to be self destructive & to make you feel worthless so you are no longer a threat to them & can be easily controlled. Every now & then, this happened automatically, The emptiness inside of them & they develop a craving to extract negative fuel from you, you usually experience this as a day where nothing you do can avoid a fight, & nothing you can do can make the narc cool off. Only until the day is utterly ruined for you will the narcissist mysteriously stop, this mysterious point is when their negative fuel gauge reaches satiation, they don’t need anymore negative fuel so there is no more point in causing you further distress then the narc suddenly puts the caring mask back on just like you refuel a car! Did you notice how much more cheerful & alive the narcissist became after ruining your day? They are back to trying to extract positive fuel to keep you hooked in your trauma bond & wrapped round their little finger... A part of intermittent reinforcement... It’s one of the hardest things to get your head around because normal human beings don’t just behave like that!

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Narcissists want total control and power over their victims, and do not like it when something obstructs this. They cannot tolerate boundaries, being told they are wrong, and cannot bear seeing a victim move on and enter a happier and healthier phase of their lives (because how dare someone live a happy life without the narcissist ). Their worst nightmare is being ignored and becoming irrelevant - because without an emotional hold over someone it is very hard to maintain control . . #narcissisticandemotionalabuse #narcissistsurvivorgroup #idealisedevaluediscard #traumabonding #narcissistawareness #narcissisticabuseawareness #emotionalabuseawareness #narcfree #lifeafternarc #lettinggoquotes #movingonquotes #empath #gaslighting #healingjourney #narcissist #relationshipquotes #toxicrelationships #healingafternarcissisticabuse #narcawareness #gaslighting #lovebombing #traumabonding #hoovering #gaslighting #mirroring #newsupply #futurefaking #nocontact #closure #selflove #positivity

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My ex partner discarded me several times. Before I learned about narcissism and started to look deeper into why I was a target for emotionally abusive men, I downloaded dating apps and often found myself searching for a carbon copy of my ex. I used to set my preferences so that I’d match with men the same age as him (much older than me ), men who wore similar clothes, had similar hobbies to him. I remember flicking through profiles and swiping no to every single person, it was almost as if I was trying to find my ex, and until I did, no one in the entire world would be good enough for me. I now know that I was doing this due to being trauma bonded. I was very deeply attached to my abuser, and just like a drug addict I was trying to fill the void, get my fix, and find a substitute for him. Of course this was impossible. Nowadays, I couldn’t think of anything worse. When I see men who show any of the traits that my ex did, I immediately back off. The red flags present themselves almost immediately. When you begin to heal, you find yourself no longer searching for your ex in another persons body. You start to recognise toxic traits and distant yourself from them immediately. The moment you stop fantasising about the person your ex was and start to believe the reality of who they really are you can guarantee that you’re on the right track to recovering from narc abuse . . #narcissisticandemotionalabuse #narcissistsurvivorgroup #idealisedevaluediscard #traumabonding #narcissistawareness #narcissisticabuseawareness #emotionalabuseawareness #narcfree #lifeafternarc #lettinggoquotes #movingonquotes #empath #gaslighting #healingjourney #narcissist #relationshipquotes #toxicrelationships #healingafternarcissisticabuse #narcawareness #gaslighting #lovebombing #traumabonding #hoovering #gaslighting #mirroring #newsupply #futurefaking #nocontact #closure #selflove #positivity

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Narcissists move on incredibly quickly. It is a fact. We’re often left grieving the relationship and in complete disbelief as to what has happened, whilst the narcissist appears to be living their ‘best life’, with a new partner who they declare they love like nobody they have ever loved before. Let me tell you this - when it comes to a narcissist, the grass is never greener. Narcissists are unable to love anyone, for they are unable to love themselves. Their behaviour towards you surely indicates that they don’t know how to love a single soul. Narcissists quickly switch from victim to victim as a way of trying to escape their inner demons. Narcissists do not love themselves and therefore seek validation from others - the more attention and love they receive from more people the more of an ego boost they get in return - it is definitely about quantity over quality when it comes to narcissistic supply. If you’re scrolling through an ex narcissists Instagram page (PLEASE STOP THIS, YOU’RE ONLY HURTING YOURSELF ) and come to the conclusion that he/she is living happily ever after then you are wrong. Narcissists do not move on to live happier lives, they move on to inflict their pain onto others. . . #narcissisticandemotionalabuse #narcissistsurvivorgroup #idealisedevaluediscard #traumabonding #narcissistawareness #narcissisticabuseawareness #emotionalabuseawareness #narcfree #lifeafternarc #lettinggoquotes #movingonquotes #empath #gaslighting #healingjourney #narcissist #relationshipquotes #toxicrelationships #healingafternarcissisticabuse #narcawareness #gaslighting #lovebombing #traumabonding #hoovering #gaslighting #mirroring #newsupply #futurefaking #nocontact #closure #selflove #positivity

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How to Spot Love Bombing To avoid getting caught up in a love bombing experience, here are a few tips to help you spot a potential problem on the horizon: Unfair demands on time – not only does the love bomber shower you with gifts, attention, and flattery, he or she also wants all of your time. You may receive phone calls, text messages or emails at all hours of the day and night, and you are expected to answer immediately. Everything is a transaction – you may notice that gifts, attention and love are always part of a transaction or an end game on the part of the narcissist. You get their attention, but you have to give up doing what you want or being around your friends and family. Pressure on moving forward – feeling any pressure to rush into the relationship should be a warning sign. A genuinely loving partner respects your need for time and does not threaten to walk away if you don’t commit to living together or marriage. Check out this article in my blog posts. Freebies in my bio #lovebombing #gaslighting #emotionalabuse #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #nocontact #sociopath #toxicrelationship #narcissisticabusesurvivor #manipulation #covertnarcissist #npd #cptsd #hoovering #flyingmonkeys #narcissisticabuseawareness #toxicpeople #narcopath #psychopath #psychologicalabuse #smearcampaign #narcissism #narcissisticabuserecovery

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